Living together in one home just by our selves has been an interesting journey so far. Learning the quantities of food to cook, not leaving the fridge open and figuring out when to do the washing.
I didnt know what to expect really, it feels just the same as it was before we were married. We get asked all the time hows married life? Well, I have a differnt last name. That seems just to be it. Since we have been together for so long we already know each other, know each others habits and how the other works. So the whole OMG im finally living with them hasnt happened nor will it. Its like slipping into a very comfortable life is one of the easiest things to do for us. But at the same time it can be hard.
Lee and I LOVE every moment that we have together but sometimes we really just miss the quirky company of our family whom we lived with before we moved into our own place. We can sit in silence sometimes and be completely happy with that other times we are begging for a visitor haha. Supposedly thats very common thing. When you start to live with someone that you know everything about its very clear that you need to do seperate things and things that you both enjoy so you can always learn!
Lee and I are going to get some board games and maybe puzzles so we dont just have to watch tv all the time when we want to relax :) but here and now I can see exactly why people have children. Its to extend their love to their FAMILY. Your children grow and you can love them just as much as your spouse, but for you and your children its all brand new :) a completely different journey. but when do you decide to take that step?
I dont know, when is the right time to start a family? I guess no one knows the answer because its different for everyone. I just can see now why people decide to have children. Well one of the reasons. I look forward to making that decision with my husband in the future :) very exciting stuff which I am totally ready for! For now though its board games and puzzles :P and quality time with my man :)
Much love
MrsNadiaMitchell xx
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