That fateful day that your partner "asked you out" can be remembered for the rest of your life, and the date seems never to be forgotten. But what i have come across is people genuinely believe that it seizes to matter after you get married.
I don't believe this AT ALL, just because one gets married does not mean that nothing else matters. I think we should all take in those moments and cherish them, always celebrate them because they are important.
My husband didn't technically "ask me out" he sent me a text when I was that simply said "what would you say if I asked you out" from that text on wards we were together. Have no idea when he plans to ask me out haha. I think about what would have happened if he didn't do that? would we have gone our separate ways? Or would we have found some way to come together again?
Every year on the 3rd of January we used to go out to different areas to celebrate our anniversary, some times we would go to the zoo or just go out to dinner. We always tried to encourage that behavior. In all fairness though I was more more for it than he was. He just wanted to make me happy. But i know he did value those times.
Now we are married, My husband and I share the opposing views, I believe that it is important to celebrate that one day every year because with out it would we be standing where we are today? Where he is on the side of we can make more memories with our new date.
What does every one think? I'm a true romantic at heart so I can sway to the opposing side. but I would love to hear other peoples opinions!
Much Love
MrsNadiaMitchell xx
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